Ridho / Perceiving oneself
Preparedness is essential in order to face all possibilities that will happen in this life. As against that has happened, then the attitude we should have is a blessing. Blessing to what eventually happened or blessing in the end results we received after business that we do.
Blessing it is the mental skills to realistically accept. To accept the fact, coupled brain and limb that is working continuously to achieve a better state.
Why do we need the blessing? Because if we do not bless any, events or results that remains the case. A simple example is when we are walking in the middle of a golf course, then there is a golf ball that is thrown and on our toes. If this event happens to us, then be blessing. Because there is no fortunately also be no blessing, yet the ball had been on our toes. Let the pain for a while. Let the pain that makes us be grumbling, cursing or anything that is not a good attitude.
In a situation like the one above it, actually there is a window of opportunity we are to worship. That is when we can interpret the fall of the golf ball as a warning from Allah. that we still remember him. So the words that came out was is dhikr.
Prophet. said, "It would feel a delicacy / sweetness of faith, the person who is pleased with Allah as his Lord and Islam as a religion and (the Prophet) Muhammad as his messenger." (HR. Muslim)
As the contents of the above hadith, be blessing will give nuance in our minds. Because in fact we are currently suffering grumbling and cursing it not been for the fall of the ball on our toes. But because we do not want to accept it. So finally we were suffering.
Another example is the case in our midst is the attitude of mocking or sneering situation yourself. There are people who own physical pout just because snub nose, or skin black, or short stature. Or there are also people who sneer himself simply being born of the family who are not wealthy.
People like the above will feel the pain. Their suffering was not caused by the fact that the case, but because ketidakterampilannya in accepting reality. So, do not be surprised if we watched a lot of people who are experiencing stress due to unskilled accept that happen to them, be it with regard to physical appearance, finances, career, and so forth.
Therefore, regardless of the fact that we face, accept and do not complain, let alone condemn or sputter. Ridho attitude will keep us from feeling pain. The fact that different from the expectations will be felt light and we will be able to condition yourself to be happy.
Really no one else incident without intent or purpose. Including if it was an unfortunate incident. A big loss if the calamity that comes addressed with a negative attitude, not accept, grumbling, or attitudes like. Since the disaster is a test that would further strengthen the power of one's self. Even when faced with the blessing, the disaster could be the way to heaven. As the word of Allah,
"Do you think that you will enter Paradise while yet to come to you (trials) as well as those who passed away before you. They are overwritten by the calamity and misery, and shaken (by various trials) that said the Messenger and those who believe with him, "When will the coming of Nashrullah (God's help)." Remember, it's actually very close to the help of God. "(QS. Al-Baqarah [2]: 214).
Be blessing it like when we cook rice, unwittingly water we pour too much so that the rice was even so mush. In these circumstances, the attitude that we do not grumble and blame themselves let alone scold others. However, be pleased with such searching celery, soy beans and shredded chicken. Add soy sauce and crackers so that it becomes mush mush chicken with a special flavor.
Prophet. said, "Whoever is pleased (to the provisions of Allah) then God will bless him .." (HR. Tirmidhi).
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Blessing it is the mental skills to realistically accept. To accept the fact, coupled brain and limb that is working continuously to achieve a better state.
Why do we need the blessing? Because if we do not bless any, events or results that remains the case. A simple example is when we are walking in the middle of a golf course, then there is a golf ball that is thrown and on our toes. If this event happens to us, then be blessing. Because there is no fortunately also be no blessing, yet the ball had been on our toes. Let the pain for a while. Let the pain that makes us be grumbling, cursing or anything that is not a good attitude.
In a situation like the one above it, actually there is a window of opportunity we are to worship. That is when we can interpret the fall of the golf ball as a warning from Allah. that we still remember him. So the words that came out was is dhikr.
Prophet. said, "It would feel a delicacy / sweetness of faith, the person who is pleased with Allah as his Lord and Islam as a religion and (the Prophet) Muhammad as his messenger." (HR. Muslim)
As the contents of the above hadith, be blessing will give nuance in our minds. Because in fact we are currently suffering grumbling and cursing it not been for the fall of the ball on our toes. But because we do not want to accept it. So finally we were suffering.
Another example is the case in our midst is the attitude of mocking or sneering situation yourself. There are people who own physical pout just because snub nose, or skin black, or short stature. Or there are also people who sneer himself simply being born of the family who are not wealthy.
People like the above will feel the pain. Their suffering was not caused by the fact that the case, but because ketidakterampilannya in accepting reality. So, do not be surprised if we watched a lot of people who are experiencing stress due to unskilled accept that happen to them, be it with regard to physical appearance, finances, career, and so forth.
Therefore, regardless of the fact that we face, accept and do not complain, let alone condemn or sputter. Ridho attitude will keep us from feeling pain. The fact that different from the expectations will be felt light and we will be able to condition yourself to be happy.
Really no one else incident without intent or purpose. Including if it was an unfortunate incident. A big loss if the calamity that comes addressed with a negative attitude, not accept, grumbling, or attitudes like. Since the disaster is a test that would further strengthen the power of one's self. Even when faced with the blessing, the disaster could be the way to heaven. As the word of Allah,
"Do you think that you will enter Paradise while yet to come to you (trials) as well as those who passed away before you. They are overwritten by the calamity and misery, and shaken (by various trials) that said the Messenger and those who believe with him, "When will the coming of Nashrullah (God's help)." Remember, it's actually very close to the help of God. "(QS. Al-Baqarah [2]: 214).
Be blessing it like when we cook rice, unwittingly water we pour too much so that the rice was even so mush. In these circumstances, the attitude that we do not grumble and blame themselves let alone scold others. However, be pleased with such searching celery, soy beans and shredded chicken. Add soy sauce and crackers so that it becomes mush mush chicken with a special flavor.
Prophet. said, "Whoever is pleased (to the provisions of Allah) then God will bless him .." (HR. Tirmidhi).
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